Born in 1983, Career headed no Where – Please help me

Originally Posted by angusmoo

thanks i have read this.

But it seems this person and me are very different personalities, we ccome from the same school thats all, but very different work and jobs.

You can gloat at me all you want but ultimately in our last days of our lifes, i should be the more successful one as i borther to try, thanks for that sir.

Also you have mentioned i have posted this 4th or 5th time. Please post it in this forum where have i posted it for 4th or 5th time, if not, the troll is you.

Please use your registered account to talk and stop hiding behind unregistered id. Have balls:d

i quoted the thread but im not the posters who said u made 4 or 5 of the same threads.
and i highly doubt the 2 threads are made by different posters. u clearly have not fully recovered from your accident. please continue to seek medical treatment.

Originally Posted by Unregistered

i quoted the thread but im not the posters who said u made 4 or 5 of the same threads.
and i highly doubt the 2 threads are made by different posters. u clearly have not fully recovered from your accident. please continue to seek medical treatment.

Different poster. I recall roughly 1-2 years ago also came across a similar posting - good school grades, made a lot of money from tuition, get into car accident, then fell into hard times. Cant remember its this forum or EDMW or sgtalk.

OP: Agree with poster on top. If you sincerely cannot recall ever posting, then it is very likely you are suffering from selective memory loss, you should discuss this with your doctor and see how best to manage.

Also on another note I happen to work in UOB recruitment side, my understanding is your division more or less is auto renewal of contract unless performance issue. Did you discuss with your supervisor in UOB why they don't want to renew your employment? Could be you are not aware some of your memory loss effect is affecting your work. Might want to explore that further.

actually i dunno what ts want even though i sympathize his mental condition. u already got a offer in primary school teaching, what else do u need? u need to be more specific, otherwise how to advise except general encouragement which tbh not very useful in real life.

[angusmoo]

Originally Posted by Unregistered

actually i dunno what ts want even though i sympathize his mental condition. u already got a offer in primary school teaching, what else do u need? u need to be more specific, otherwise how to advise except general encouragement which tbh not very useful in real life.

To be very specific and i believed that you have read my post properly, now being employed as a student care teacher, i am paid $1800 and all of my colleagues are 11 years younger that me. With this kind of salary, i cannot survive and I am 34.

Most women in singapore shun me as they are shocked to har of my salary and i find it very hard to get a partner because of my low salary

Originally Posted by angusmoo

To be very specific and i believed that you have read my post properly, now being employed as a student care teacher, i am paid $1800 and all of my colleagues are 11 years younger that me. With this kind of salary, i cannot survive and I am 34.

Most women in singapore shun me as they are shocked to har of my salary and i find it very hard to get a partner because of my low salary

i read ur post properly. first half is just abt how good ur in the past, 2nd half is just how little money u r making now. no specific question at all.

ur latest post say nothing except u think the current pay too low and u want a job with more money. nothing wrong with that, but all of us here also want a higher paying job, u ask like never ask.

what advice do u want? how to negotiate for higher salary for the teaching job? how to get back to banking industry? how to explain ur mental condition to interviewers? where to get more leads to do tuition? how to start a business? where to find freelance assignments?

Best to look for contract call centre opening with other banks.

Usually can renew and convert to perm after a few years. Move up to team lead/supervisor in the future can make at least 50-60k p.a. by 40 years old which is not bad.

Also no point keep comparing with your peers who are making much more than you, you just end up getting depressed.

Originally Posted by angusmoo

To be very specific and i believed that you have read my post properly, now being employed as a student care teacher, i am paid $1800 and all of my colleagues are 11 years younger that me. With this kind of salary, i cannot survive and I am 34.

Most women in singapore shun me as they are shocked to har of my salary and i find it very hard to get a partner because of my low salary

im guessing u are PES E / discharged from all reservist duties since u entered the operating theatre after your accident.

i noticed u have a 2nd lower NTU degree in marketing.
let's assume you can fully function physically n mentally like a normal human being.

have u tried applying for civil service jobs at careers@gov website? entry lvl degree holder after NS draws $3000. after passing your probation and getting emplaced on perm scheme will add another 500 so that makes it high 3Ks or close to 4K.

u mentioned u were a fulltime n private tutor with lots of experience. ever thought of taking a TOEFL / IELTS / CELTA / DELTA course so that u can teach overseas?
i have friends doing it. the pay is low, but it can definitely get u above 1.8k SGD...

ok, im not promoting banks. but how about joining OCBC as Personal Financial Consultant / Relationship Manager? link below...

s://ocbc.taleo.net/careersection/ocbc_external/jobsearch.ftl?lang=en

dont say i nvr help u. i alr listed a lot of jobs above that can make u earn above 1.8k, which is your current pay.

lastly, not everyone is fated to be married. if u cannot find a compatible SG gf, what makes u think your foreigner wife WONT run away in times of distress / financial instability provided by u?

good luck angusmoo.

[angusmoo]

Originally Posted by Unregistered

im guessing u are PES E / discharged from all reservist duties since u entered the operating theatre after your accident.

i noticed u have a 2nd lower NTU degree in marketing.
let's assume you can fully function physically n mentally like a normal human being.

have u tried applying for civil service jobs at careers@gov website? entry lvl degree holder after NS draws $3000. after passing your probation and getting emplaced on perm scheme will add another 500 so that makes it high 3Ks or close to 4K.

u mentioned u were a fulltime n private tutor with lots of experience. ever thought of taking a TOEFL / IELTS / CELTA / DELTA course so that u can teach overseas?
i have friends doing it. the pay is low, but it can definitely get u above 1.8k SGD...

ok, im not promoting banks. but how about joining OCBC as Personal Financial Consultant / Relationship Manager? link below...

s://ocbc.taleo.net/careersection/ocbc_external/jobsearch.ftl?lang=en

dont say i nvr help u. i alr listed a lot of jobs above that can make u earn above 1.8k, which is your current pay.

lastly, not everyone is fated to be married. if u cannot find a compatible SG gf, what makes u think your foreigner wife WONT run away in times of distress / financial instability provided by u?

good luck angusmoo.

sincerely appreciate your helpful and candid post sis/bro. You have been the most helpful out of most replies

I am not sure about the PES Status, since i was a commando and had been discharged (ROD) from the army long before so i have no NS liabilities.

Sincere thanks once again, I hope you have a great life ahead.

My best wishes for your family, health, finance and also you are Thank you

[angusmoo]

I will make my attempt at civil service. However, would it be appropriate to mention that I had been out of action and the workforce for 5 years, or do I have to lie again?

Originally Posted by angusmoo

I will make my attempt at civil service. However, would it be appropriate to mention that I had been out of action and the workforce for 5 years, or do I have to lie again?

i read that your accident was at Malaysia's North South highway, so im guessing u were treated in a Malaysia hospital.

why would u have to lie? if your entire story is true, get the certificate / letter from the doctor / hospital certifying that u are permanently disabled with almost no chances of recovery.

malaysia may not be as modern n developed as SG, but im the hospital would have kept your patient records n data?

im sure your potential employer would understand the accident was what caused u to be jobless for 4 or 5 years until u made a miraculous recovery...

if u choose to lie, it's even worse. nowadays with the help of modern day technology, HR of any company can check on your past background using software program or even make a simple phonecall to your "previous fake employers".