Unhappy in new job

[Nik]

Originally Posted by Unregistered

Which part is big cannon?

If you are referring to mine, you can bet your last dollar it's real. If you are interested, I can give you the company name, my 4 colleagues who were in a shouting and screaming match with me. even their Direct extensions. LOL.

Your world is too small, you are too myopic!!!

Wake up!!!!!!!!!

While I admire your bravery and your badass-ness, I wonder if you're not worried that word might spread out and affect your reputation. Not sure which industry you're from, but some industries (especially the specialized / niche ones) are very small and everyone knows everyone. Plus nowadays there's social media. Imagine if some one else upload vids of you and spread it around, then everyone will know your shouting match

Originally Posted by Unregistered

last time my boss try to withold pay i kick his table until laptop fall and he threaten to call police. i tell him call lor, wait for police come and ask him pay. in the end he just back down and lppl pay up.

Wow, unless you are not planning to work in that industry anymore then you can put all sorts of stunts but if you are just planning to find another job in the same industry. Good luck to you. You won't know when your potential employer will background check on you. If your ex boss is still holding a grudge on you, and coincidentally, your potential employer checked with him on you, you better hope Lady Luck has mercy on you.

Originally Posted by Nik

While I admire your bravery and your badass-ness, I wonder if you're not worried that word might spread out and affect your reputation. Not sure which industry you're from, but some industries (especially the specialized / niche ones) are very small and everyone knows everyone. Plus nowadays there's social media. Imagine if some one else upload vids of you and spread it around, then everyone will know your shouting match

EVEN BETTER!!!

I want the whole singapore to know, and I want the whole world to know.

They cause me to have PTSD - post trauma stress disorder. and Depression.

let them die.

They are lucky my parents coax me to cool down. otherwise I become a bloody criminal and beat up one of the guys .. I don't mind going to jail.

I was bullied by my ex bosses..

One time in a meeting room, we got into a raging shouting match until I lost control.

I threw the project remote controller at him and hurled a big black roller chair over to his side, IT WAS DAMN BLOODY LOUD.

Originally Posted by Unregistered

I was bullied by my ex bosses..

One time in a meeting room, we got into a raging shouting match until I lost control.

I threw the project remote controller at him and hurled a big black roller chair over to his side, IT WAS DAMN BLOODY LOUD.

I think you are seriously troubled.. you sound like the one who totally lost it over a discussion of EQ in this forum. For your own sake please get some help and stop terrorizing your employers.

all this sinkie bosses humji kings only know how to bully weak workers. i got some bosses try to act funny just shout at them and make action to want to beat them all scared and only know how to call police.

Originally Posted by Unregistered

all this sinkie bosses humji kings only know how to bully weak workers. i got some bosses try to act funny just shout at them and make action to want to beat them all scared and only know how to call police.

I managed to get back at them, by mass-sending an email to the entire company. The email contains some embarrassing things that one of the managers did. It is beyond moral comprehension LOL.

Originally Posted by Unregistered

EVEN BETTER!!!

I want the whole singapore to know, and I want the whole world to know.

They cause me to have PTSD - post trauma stress disorder. and Depression.

let them die.

They are lucky my parents coax me to cool down. otherwise I become a bloody criminal and beat up one of the guys .. I don't mind going to jail.

You will definitely regret when you grow old. So what if 'whole Singapore' knows ? You think the people of Singapore care ? Singaporeans are known to be forgetful. Sorry to say, you better don't let anyone here CSI you or else surely no one will dare employ you.

Employers are reluctant to employ anyone with mental disorder and you CLEARLY have EXHIBITED, though in text, your LOW tolerance towards stress and pressure.

In fact, it is NOT the company/staff that caused you to suffer from mental breakdown, it is YOU and ONLY YOURSELF to blame for the mental breakdown. It is not how ppl mistreat you, it is HOW YOU SEE the 'mistreat' that people pour on you.

Cannot take it, just admit that you do not have the capacity to swallow, look for another job and move on. Simple as that.

Honestly sucks to be you, I can totally emphathise. I've been following this blog for quite some time, it used to be something else but it got revamped. It's pretty nice, anonymous, and relates very well to this girl's (I think it's a girl author?) bitch boss. It feels much better knowing you're not alone. It has helped me through some really tough times and the writing is pretty stoic (though in a pretty hilarious way)

Give her a read, I love her because she's raw and incredibly honest. Links are not allowed here but try seasonedeyeroller(.)wordpress(.)com

Hi there,

Not to worry. I've experienced something like that before... that's why I never had a good impression of certain industries in Singapore.

I've experienced something like this before - it is not because my boss is a sinkies that why I don't even bother to tell him off. Some sinkies are just as bad, but because these individuals have commitment at home that why they don't have a choice.

Well done, I would say that whatever you have done is commendable. This is necessary to bring across certain point that we although we are employee, we are not easily pushed over.

Originally Posted by Unregistered

I was bullied by my ex bosses..

One time in a meeting room, we got into a raging shouting match until I lost control.

I threw the project remote controller at him and hurled a big black roller chair over to his side, IT WAS DAMN BLOODY LOUD.