33 year old and helpless - Please advise

Originally Posted by Unregistered

get a girlfriend or get married. with combined income, should be no problem in getting a HDB flat soon. be it resale or BTO.
I know you are eager to regain whatever financial loss in the shortest possible time. there is definitely a fast way to do it with calculated high risk - the stock market. this is the only way if you need money badly. if not, forget what I say.
why volunteer your medical condition to your prospective employer? if they ask about the void period which you have no income, just say you travel round the world or whatever BS. Apply for a slightly lower post (say $5,000) which matches your current mental capacity. when you secure the job and perform well later, salary will then be adjusted favourably.

$5000 after a long gap in employment history! Do you think HR is really that easy to fool? Every time HR have an interviewee with long gaps missing, red flags are raised. He will need to erase his time doing odd jobs from the resume also.

I am guessing here. You earned well in tuition industry. Its a billion dollar industry. Why not go back to it. This is an industry that does not care about your missing years. Your students only care about whether you can help them get results. If your cognitive function does not allow you to go back to the tuition industry, it means white collar job may be out of the question. Maybe you can look into finding a trade? Crane operators earn 3k. Hawkers, taxi driver earn decent pay also. Good luck to your recovery.

Originally Posted by chia188188

Hello,

I am a 33 year old man that has been jobless for 5 years. I have been jobless as I had met with a serious car accident in Malaysia at the age of 28 and has lost my memory for more than 3 years. it was only till I was 31 y o that's when I started ton regain my memory and certain percentage of my cognitive skills ( which is still lacking now)

I can be perceived to be someone of above average high calibre. here is my brief background:

O levels - 9 GCE O level distinctions. graduated from SJI
A levels - 4 GCE A levels. Graduated from National Junior College
University - NTU, Bachelor in Marketing with 2nd lower honours.

Despite graduating in 2007, I have started working in 2005 due to poor family background.

2005-2007 : $3200/mth as a tuition centre teacher

2007 : Immediately after graduation, I landed myself with a tuition centre from Korea based in Singapore. My starting salary is $5000/mth. Yes I am not bragging, because I deliver results. I got exponential salary increments year by year as the enrolment of my students kept increasing.

2008 : $6,000/mth (age 25)
2009 : $6,000/ mth (age 26, no increment due to economic crisis)
2010 : $6,500/mth (age 27) - became Department Manager
2011 : $7,500/mth (age 28) - I switched job to Mavis Tutorial Centre and was leading the Chemistry department then.

then bam, came my accident and turned my world upside down. I was hospitalised for a year and completely lost my memory and I am unable to work between the age 28 to 31 years old. The only consolation was that I am still alive.

My cognition and memory started improving at age 32 years old and I struggled very hard. I started out as a dishwasher with RE&S ($1,300/mth), then a waiter at jumbo seafood restaurant($1600/mth), then a driver for a wholesaler($1600/mth) and finally towards the start of this year, I managed to pick up some assignments from tution referral agencies like starzest and trust tuition agency and currently I am averaging $1,700+ for the first half of this year.

$1,700 for a 33 year old. its pathetic right? enough of my sob story.

I want to fight hard and stand back up again.

My question is what would you do if you were me. I really wanted to earn more so that I could buy my much desired house and catch up with my peers.

I am thinking of being a kindergarten teacher and starting out from ground zero again. I understand they pay a very low salary. but I am looking for a job with stability and room for growth

Can anyone please advise me what will be the salary of a university educated kindergarten teacher?

Also what is the retirement age for a kindergarten teacher?

I sincerely look forward to your advises.

cool story bro.

go **** yourself

How is TS coping ?

Originally Posted by Unregistered

cool story bro.

go **** yourself

i like your suggestion bro. thinking about it, he can train to be a hunk and **** the rich tai tai