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Originally Posted by Unregistered
I think the earlier guy who commented on your 3 huge employment gaps is to referring to perhaps you yourself may be the toxic source. Ask yourself why do you keep changing jobs? I have seen colleagues who said other colleagues are toxic are in fact more toxic themselves and is usually the toxic originator. Certainly, a person who has frequent job change does not reflect well on himself or herself.
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I don't know if my previous post is up.
I'm the original poster.
I left those jobs with together with long stayers in the companies and we did reflect hard on ourselves and the environment prior to our decision - note these are women in their 40s with young children, they are not going to leave a job easily but they did.
We found the problem un-fixable and it certainly wasn't us that's toxic.
If you were to judge me, i'd say the only sin of mine is i don't like to fight at work. I should have stood up for myself more and learn to suck up more to colleagues with power.
I do my stuff and try my best to work with others. I don't gossip and don't mingle unnecessarily. I don't ask others to do clear my ****. So what am i toxic of?