38, married with kids
Cash savings: $500K Stocks and unit trusts: $400K Home value less outstanding loan: $1.8M |
Singapore is an expensive city to live in. But if you and wife are in your 30s or 40s life can only get better as your children grow up, your salaries increase and loans get paid down. Your perseverance will get you through.
However if you are in your fifties, it is a different story altogether. Your upside is limited. Where people are looking at retirement at this stage, your $10k pa savings will not lead to much. Downgrading to a small HDB flat is advisable. Cut down your expenses to $100k pa or less if you can, and start saving and investing with more urgency. Quote:
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Thanks for the advice. We are in our fifties, we married late and got kids late. Yes, my wife and I agreed that we need to downgrade to a small HDB flat when we retire at 65 since we do not have much savings. We plan to sell our condo, which is valued at $3m now, and then apply for the BTO HDB studio flat for the elderly (which costs $100k).
We estimate that we will have cash of $2m in hand by then and will retire with the $2m. Assuming we will live for another 25 years after the age of 65, we will spend about $80k per year. We hope to spend less than that as we will enjoy rebates (for those living in HDB flats). We will also get the monthly CPF Life payouts of $2k per month. Maybe our kids will also give us some allowance. So, we have about $120k pa to spend if we need to. Quote:
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You are only looking from 1 point of view - net worth, to reach your drastic conclusion. You need to look at the other very important end - expenses. Only then, and then only, one can suggest whether the money that a person has (net worth) is enough for him or not. Without this important piece of information, all you are doing is just stating the typical things you keep hearing. Or, making assumptions that are totally random without validation. A family with a net worth of $500k but living in moderate setup with expenses being less, will be far more better than a family with a net worth of $4m but living lavishing with high expenses. I accept that with inflation cost of different items will increase in the future. But you need to realise that humans adapt to their environment and circumstances. That is why, in the present situation, when you go to a grocery store, you will find bread for $1.10 and go to a different grocery store (with organic) - bread will cost $3.30 (same number of pieces, but ofcourse, different brands). There is always a choice. Depending on ones income, affordability, tastes/likings and other monetary commitments, one will make a decision and a choice if they want to buy a $1.10 bread or a $3.30 bread. This is how one will manage their expenses. And this in turn will help the family understand whether they need to save more or less for future. |
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We don't really need to save too much. Just live a simple life. Enjoy the benefits of living in cheap BTO flat. If you are not a successful, high powered individual, just be happy and contented with a HDB BTO flat. If you feel sad, just think of the millions around the world who live in slums, count yourself lucky that you were not born in those slums.
If you are a highly energetic, smart, high powered, highly successful individual, by all means, buy a nice luxury condo for you and your family to enjoy. Buy a nice luxury continental car if you want and go and enjoy your holidays. Be thankful for what you have. But do not be arrogant, feed the poor, protect the orphans and make a better life for those in need. I am lucky to live in a beautiful, brand new luxury condo in a good district. I also own a nice luxury car and enjoy holidays. But I now devote my time to charity work, after working so hard for many years accumulating wealth, I now spend my time for others. I'm now retired at age 53, and earning passive income from my investment portfolio. |
Secrets of saving:
1. Buy a home you can afford. Be happy with a BTO HDB flat. This is very cheap. If you are a graduate couple who bought your BTO flat for $200k, you can easily pay it off within 5 years from your annual combined bonus. If you have a $150k loan, if your take home bonus combined is $30k pa, you can clear within less than 5 years. 2. Do not buy a car, take MRT and bus. You can save as much as $2000 per month. 3. Do not eat at expensive restaurants. Just buy $3 meals from hawker centers. Take away and you will save on drinks. 4. Do not gamble. Gambling is stupid as you will definitely lose money, for sure. 5. Do not smoke or drink. Total waste of money as well as incurring medical cost in the future as you will get lung cancer, liver cancer, etc. 5. Do not womanize. You will be in a costly divorce. You will also get all sorts of sexually transmitted diseases, AIDs, and you will spend so much money on medicines and doctor fees. 6. Do not sodomize and be a gay. You will get AIDs and will incur huge medical bills and will die young. 7. Do not be a glutton. Eat in moderation and fast. You will get diabetes, heart diseases, etc. |
Your "advise" or "secrets" don't really apply to the many millionaires here. Many are not qualified to buy BTO flats by the time they got married because of their high incomes. Also many are too busy earning big bucks to spend their time on those frivolous vices you mentioned below. And how many people are really gay?
Taking public transport is fine, but try telling it to a family with young kids, elderly parents and who earns a few hundred $K a year. It is actually more cost effective to have a car when you frequently ferry your family members around. What is important is to work hard, earn, save and invest, and to live a meaningful and useful life for yourself and society. Do not fall for the excuse that lazy people use - to live simply and therefore no need to work hard or worse, don't work at all. I find the underprivileged derived more help from generous people who are successful in life than those who are not. Quote:
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