I just wanna comment on this part.

It's very sickening to know that children, who even grow up to adults at age 30 plus, still live off their parents. Being jealous of rich kids are one thing, but knowing of people who are just lazy bums and take money from their parents is just sickening to me.

Don't know how it's related to this. But for the above situation, can you really say you were a success in raising your child if you know that he or she had to always depend on you, even when he or she is an adult.