My husband earns 5k and i earn 4k pm. I give my mom 700pm because she takes care of my son, i know not enough but i cannot afford more than that. My husband gives his mom 500, he gave 1k before married, 800 when we were planning to get married and now 500 becuz we have a lot of loans.

Reno loans jus settled.
Car loans
kids
Childcare
Enrichment
Housing loans

I just asked him to reduce to 400 for his mom, i know many people will judge me but we cannot afford more. And we always been self sufficient never take a single cent from his family.