Next time give full story lah. Your gf is younger than you and earns more. Somemore her parents already gave her a condo and a Merz.

Then you look at the situation and you want to be househusband. Of course anyone would think you lack ambition.

And you never said what you work as. Salesman? If so, the 110K earned may be only for that 1 year due entirely to luck. Just like the taxi driver who claimed he earned 7K a month and it turned out it was for only 1 lucky month. Rest of the time it was only 3K.

Also your physical attributes. Like how short you are, whether you look like sh**, what you have...
Women can be discerning, money is just one of the things they look for in a partner.

Finally you are a loser because you said so.