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Old 04-05-2013, 12:04 AM
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Maybe there is office politics going on and I'm not aware or it is just happening at a very minimal. Atleast cut me some break here since this is only my first job in the corporate world and still a rookie needed time for transition.

I think if in the end still cannot click so well also nvm, there are many other staffs like me who also don't have a clique and were doing just fine. I want to make friend with them is because I want to make it a better workplace and to feel enjoyable going to work everyday. If not it's very dull and boring.

First few months Nv easy for me either, it's those small talks, pantry talk by asking personal questions like where u stay, u look busy, small jokes, I realize u like to wear blar blar colour.. It's hard but must try..

Yeah, I'm still trying and I think it's getting better now. How is your relationship with your colleagues and managers like? Is it so good until like how I described in my earlier post?

''What else do you want? Everyone to join you in scolding how your co, boss, colleague sux? Jeez this is pathetic. You are seriously mistaken if you think you can fix everything by changing job, the one that needs fixing is you. ''

What else do I want? I only said don't ask me any more questions or keep giving criticisms. And hell you have such a shitty thinking that I would want the people here to join in and scold my colleagues and boss sux? I already stated that we don't click that well is simply because we got no common topics and interest that's all, not because of anyone sux.

Ignorant for you to even make this comment, I think you need a fixing to your eye.


''Sounds ok, so what is the problem?''

The problem is I'm not a master loner like you who can view this ok, I don't expect to be very close friend with them but atleast can joke and socialise together to make the work experience better.

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