The person was giving you a hypothetical example to illustrate your pattern of speech here, you still go and ask for proof.

People who reply need not be the OP of the reply you replied to. But clearly more than one person have the same takeaway from your responses. No need to apologise to us. It means nothing and we do not require it.

What matters is that you reflect on the advice rather than repeating the exact same thing. The way you speak about yourself will invite people to treat you a certain way.

Online forum may not mince their words compared to real life due to anonymity. But the same principles apply. If you cannot manage online criticism (ie. brush it off and walk away) I am uncertain how you will cope in a real office. The MNCs and other roles you hope to work in are filled with the same range of characters that come online to forums.

In short, engaging with you is very tedious. Please don’t apologise. Silence and reflection would be the best response.