1st time - excolleague informs R.O abt intention to resign, P wanted to meet her. She was firm about her decision. 2nd time, called down again to be dissuaded - not successful. 3rd time - warning of not being able to join the fraternity again, bad records etc given. Multiple meetings later, said colleague was still firm and tendered. However, when she tried to apply to be a flexi a year later, her application was rejected multiple times, with no explanation given.