Wife 38 - 72k pa.
me 40 - 120k pa.
Owe mortgage 800k
Have a car, helper and a kid.
Both of us not much savings.. probably 150k only.

Honestly, last few yrs almost 0-1 mth bonus only for both of us. sad.

I wonder if i am doing ok or need to buck up and change job. I see my peers now head of a dept or bank. very depressing.