Just tink of the consequences of not doing so... these days it's not just the women who wants a financially-able partner... the men also want a partner who can help with the household expenses.. so the knife cuts both ways... Somemore with the influx of prettier and more obliging women especially from china into singapore.. We singaporean women must buck up and improve ourselves to remain competitive.. Must have both brains and beauty these days... Itz a cruel world.. Dun be complacent now and become helpless and regretful in the future... I have seen too many living examples so i know what i'm talking about ladies... Good luck..