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Old 06-09-2011, 03:15 PM
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[QUOTE=vision;15987]Hey Unregistered, However i believe you didn't bother to check out the facts before you start shooting people down over here. Maybe you had a bad day, or you just need to vent your frustrations or whatsoever. I have no say over that but i will advice you not judge people on whether will they "fail" or not so quickly.[Quote]

I don't know you, all 5 pointers I raised are taken directly based on what you have wirtten over here. If any of them are wrong, then tell us where it is wrong. No point giving generic comments like "check out the facts before you start shooting." I don't even know who you are, how am I supposed to check out the facts other than basing it 100% on what you said earlier?

I stand by my comments that you are not going to get anywhere no matter what you study if this is the hap hazard way you approach life's major decisions. Call this an uncle who has seen a lot perspective. Can't prove to you on that, but I've seen enough of people with similar attitude to know with a high statistical confidence what will happen.

[Quote]I believe different people have different approach. Maybe from your perspective, i am a "failure". Perhaps this is the way you put your point across or even, you could be sharing your personal experience! But I will like to see myself in the process of finding my direction, thus seeking inputs from the more experienced netizens out here.[QUOTE]

Different people different approach is a statement that is so broad that it is meaningless. There are lots of correct apporaches and of course much more wrong approaches. That is not a blanket for you to tolerate your own faulty attitude to making critical decisions. Like I pointed out earlier, you had 5 decision points in your life so far and the framework in which you approach each of those is quite simply no different from just tossing a coin.

I can of course follow some kind forumers here in sharing with you insights on the maritime industry or offering ad-hoc comments on what course I think you should take. But ask yourself honestly, you are going to face another 50 or may 500 more of such decsions in the rest of your career, do you really think the results will be different if you employ the same way of probelm solving as you are doing now?

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