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Originally Posted by Unregistered
I am not a troll.
But I wonder if anyone is same as me.
I am in Early mid 30s. Female.
But I don’t seem to be able to find love and a man to settle down with.
Since graduation I have been in this profession.
I met many great male colleagues unfortunately most good men are attached married.
My question is is it too late for me to find love and to settle down?
I believe I am attractive. Smart. Law degree holder. Lawyer by profession. Can craft arguments well. Well read.
And why are all the good men taken?
It seems I have no luck in love. What can I do?
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I have a friend in the same shoes. We were both uni mates in
NUS.
She was quite picky - had a lot of boyfriends - they treated her seriously (one even threatened to kill himself when she broke up). She appeared to be playing with different guys emotionally.
In the end we both reached 35. I got married to a teacher. While she remained single.
I think the older you are and once you don’t know how to cherish what you have in your younger days, you can’t correct your mistakes. Ppl move on with life. The guys she dated previously have moved on as well (married with kids).
So I think really you shouldn’t have been too picky. Not everyday a guy is willing to die for someone.