| Today 07:01 AM |
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Then its not really what OP who said "toxic & insecure peeps I know look normal or even decent. That why it easy to be taken in by their appearances. Until they try to sabotage and after many times of giving them benefit of doubt, you realise their words & actions all crafted to polish their own image in front of their ROs" :S, and a few posters before....
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It’s totally compatible. Earlier post took view “MAS is full of such hypocritical people”. I personally am not sure if it’s to such an extent. My own experience is most people seem ok. If it appears that people say one thing and do another, it could be they’re going along with what boss wants and are afraid to say what they really think. This is different level from the toxic and insecure kind. This type, I have met a couple of very bad examples. Some teams may have more, or some teams may have mostly nice people, so the experience depends on who you work with.
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| Today 03:40 AM |
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Actually with certain exceptions colleagues generally try to be helpful. The problem is that being Asian, in the office many are afraid to say no, speak up etc. So on thorny issues, when it is easier to go along with the position a superior wants, they will do so. This creates the appearance of a consensus from a number of people, when sometimes it’s merely an echo chamber of people acquiescing to one or two dominant voices.
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Then its not really what OP who said "toxic & insecure peeps I know look normal or even decent. That why it easy to be taken in by their appearances. Until they try to sabotage and after many times of giving them benefit of doubt, you realise their words & actions all crafted to polish their own image in front of their ROs" :S, and a few posters before....
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| Today 12:03 AM |
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Then again, MAS is full of such hypocritical people.
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Actually with certain exceptions colleagues generally try to be helpful. The problem is that being Asian, in the office many are afraid to say no, speak up etc. So on thorny issues, when it is easier to go along with the position a superior wants, they will do so. This creates the appearance of a consensus from a number of people, when sometimes it’s merely an echo chamber of people acquiescing to one or two dominant voices.
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| Yesterday 07:40 PM |
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The toxic & insecure peeps I know look normal or even decent. That why it easy to be taken in by their appearances. Until they try to sabotage and after many times of giving them benefit of doubt, you realise their words & actions all crafted to polish their own image in front of their ROs.
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Wow, feel sorry for u then. Cui cannot, normal also cannot. Looks like its hard to tell who ur friends really are. Then again, MAS is full of such hypocritical people. Good luck, hope u enjoy your stay!
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| Yesterday 05:46 PM |
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The toxic & insecure peeps I know look normal or even decent. That why it easy to be taken in by their appearances. Until they try to sabotage and after many times of giving them benefit of doubt, you realise their words & actions all crafted to polish their own image in front of their ROs.
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It’s all about the polishing man. Always. Plain old vanilla polishing is not good enough though. Need to polish in all directions including all the various nooks and crannies. Then only will your RO feel shiok!
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| Yesterday 05:07 PM |
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Ikr. Especially those who don't look like humans/have a cui face. Those are the most insecure and toxic.
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The toxic & insecure peeps I know look normal or even decent. That why it easy to be taken in by their appearances. Until they try to sabotage and after many times of giving them benefit of doubt, you realise their words & actions all crafted to polish their own image in front of their ROs.
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| Yesterday 01:49 PM |
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Lol welcome to MAS. There are many of such toxic people who are like that. Dunid quote names next time. The list is longer than just 1.
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Ikr. Especially those who don't look like humans/have a cui face. Those are the most insecure and toxic.
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| 21-06-2024 11:03 PM |
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Lack of empathy towards people.
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Agree. Such people often justify their actions by claiming they are maintaining high standards. This discloses a failure to understand what motivates employees to bring their best to work. Other than compensation and job satisfaction, a key factor is how nurturing the work environment is - on this, most peers are ok except those eager to climb and/outdo others in the process, so the quality of the higher ups you report to can make or break the deal!
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| 21-06-2024 10:40 PM |
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If it’s just angry scolding it’s not the worst, never respectful to be scolded until other colleagues on same floor can hear (have heard stories about that from more than one source), but at least such people are WYSIWYG. What’s worse are those who are passive aggressive due to their insecurities. But you can also learn lessons from such people which is to ignore, avoid, or even have a laugh at their behaviour.
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Lack of empathy towards people.
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| 21-06-2024 07:33 PM |
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What!? You mean all the DD1 at least 10k? I am getting depressed
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Is your workload a lot? If you can pang gang at 6pm most of the time, I say no need to be too fixed on the figure. Slightly above or below 10k, the take home will not be much diff. The more they pay you the more they will expect.
Not saying it’s ok to be lowball, but title and salary is a lot about ego than whether u really need that extra cash. Many AD I know work their a** off hoping to be DD only to find it’s not such a huge deal after they are finally promoted. Look at staff directory these days every other person is a DD.
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