Hmm..
I think most folks may find themselves in that catch 22 situation where they have just enough to send their kid(s) overseas or for themselves in terms of retirement. Worse when they have only enough to send 1 . So should they send the older or the younger one ?
If it was clear cut, then i do sort of agree it would be easier for parents just to say : GO and etc.
You made a good point about parents needing to make an offer but if this is so, the decision then is shifted to the kid who makes the decision.
In today's newspaper it was mentioned that 7500 kids defaulted on their parents
CPF university loans ie to top back their parents
CPF account after finding a job. It did not mention if the parents needed the money.
I am sure the kids have their reasons. And would love to hear more of their views.