coming 30yo this year..

working for 4.5yr in the IT industry since 25yo after graduate.

cash: 50k
shares: 18k

annual income: 57.6k

feeling the mid life crisis, and had been having the illusion of me myself now wasting my time away not changing job for more growth due to the fact that i'm 'locked' by the company's performance bonus.

just rejected a 67k senior position job offer due the above.

am i a loser?