I am that original poster.

Yes. I stayed on because sometimes he is very nice as he tried to be fair to everyone but sometimes when there is a chance, he will throw unexpected intentional discriminating remark at me.

I was given pay rise and bonus recently as he told me he is looking at me working long term in his company. I was so happy..... And then the company lunch incident happened.

I think he seriously has problem with himself.

And the way the company is managed makes me feel uncomfortable and 'out of the way'.

In case anyone wonders, this company is sole proprietorship so the only big boss is this boss.

Next will be cny company lunch, I think I really have to take grab to and fro whatever restaurant he has organised the lunch for us. Lol