Does it make sense to leave Singapore for hometown in this scenario?

Just what is an arranged marriage? I thought a man of 30 should have the right to choose who he wants to marry. What exactly do the guy and the girl discuss and disclose before their parents "arrange" their marriage?
I thought a marriage is a marriage, arranged or not.
Correct me if I am wrong. Arranged marriages are from the stone age.

Bro,

Looks like you are really confused. im kinda confused reading your post.

Originally Posted by Devjyoti

Background

Age 31+,
Education: Economics graduate from India, Masters in Accounting & Finance from Australia, CPA in Singapore

a. you are masters in accounting from Oz and CPA in Singapore. Why look for MBA now? mAKES no sens.

Job History: 7 years in Singapore, worked in two of the big four followed by job in a bank as product controller/risk

b. youve worked for 2 of the big4. can't you find a job there again? risk is a hot area of work

Marital Status: Married, wife, age 27 +, is a homemaker & unlikely to get a job
Residency Status: Here on EP, PR application rejected thrice...
There are reasonable job opportunities in India for both me & my wife.

c. wife is homemaker and unlikely to get a job yet you want her to find a job and proceed to do an MBA? Sori, your posts mentions that much

most friends' PR

d. Most friends PR - what diff doz that mek

...but hope to get some better paying job....

e. hope to get some better paying job - "some better paying job" - learn to identify what you are looking for in life rather than ask for opinien from complete strangerrs

...I'll be left stagnating even more after the MBA.

f. Looking at your post, you will stagnate in life regardless of what you do

...I had hoped that my wife could perhaps find a job and remain behind in Singapore with that job...

g. thot you said that your wife is unlikely to find a job in Singapore

...my wife now says its time we start trying for a baby, as she wants to be a mother before 30, and I am old enough as some of my friends' are already fathers....

...Her parents too are very keen on a grandchild, her old grandparents too are anxious to be great grandparents....

h. not sure if this this is the place to discuss your family plans

...when a 26 year old woman marries a 30 year old man, she assumes he's completed his education.........

i. sez who?

............that if such a man is stagnating, he should move to another city or country instead.

j. some people will stagnate everywhere...

I can't believe I actually bothered to read through this entire thread.

This thread cannot be anything more than one big epic TROLL!!! It simply cannot be anything other than that.

Devjoti, are you still in singaporre with the same wife?
i piti you

Originally Posted by worthless

Devjoti, are you still in singaporre with the same wife?
i piti you

Hi,
are you still in Singapore? did you become a father or has your wife left you?

I suggest you do not wash your personal linen in this forum. See your wife and return to India.

Originally Posted by Devjyoti

Background

Age 31+,
Education: Economics graduate from India, Masters in Accounting & Finance from Australia, CPA in Singapore
Job History: 7 years in Singapore, worked in two of the big four followed by job in a bank as product controller/risk
Job Status: Job is moving to Pune & Poland
Salary: Little less than 100k per annum, has been stagnant for two years
Marital Status: Married, wife, age 27 +, is a homemaker & unlikely to get a job
Social Life: Friends make 2.5 times what I make,
Residency Status: Here on EP, PR application rejected thrice, most friends' PR


Should I move back to India in this scenario?

you expect total strangers on the internet to guide you?

be a man. Only you can stand for yourself. If you don't respect yourself, noone else will.

The kingdom of god is within you. So is the kingdom of Satan.